You can spend years thinking only that your husband is "difficult" and finding support and relief in your family and friends when you need real support.
Then, one day, someone asks you: "Did you notice that he always gives you this passive aggressive responses that leave you in the lurch? how do you cope with the constant fog he creates around him?".... and the light is on. Now you have a name for the behavior; now you don't blame yourself first for not being clever enough as to understand him...You have to face the fact that you are in a passive aggressive marriage!
This is the moment when you can ask the real questions to yourself:
Are you prepared to release your own pent-up feelings of helplessness against life and marriage?
Do you crave open, honest communication with your partner, but he gives you the cold shoulder often?
Do you think you could have a good amount of respect for him if only you understood your husband’s motivations better, so he would and could be responsible of his marital duties?
Do you want finally to know when to trust him to follow up on his promises to you?
If you answered “yes” to any of these questions it is time to learn how to control your future and discover the secrets to reclaiming your full love life.
If you feel trapped in an unhappy relationship, or if you are tired of useless confrontations with your loved one, it is time to make a change, by learning a new way of addressing him that protects you better....and leaves him in a place where he needs to treat you differently.
If you are ready to stop waiting for him to change; and you are ready to take control of your relationship and move it into a whole new direction, then you need to know this information
If this e-book gets to your hands, and you read it carefully, there WILL BE change. Your relationship will be different, and you will be empowered to face your marriage in a new way.
I know how you feel – I'm married to one too. If you would like to email me at susanriddell@gmail.com I'd love to connect with you. If not, I hope your life turns out how you would like 🙂
I know how you feel – I'm married to one too. If you would like to email me at susanriddell@gmail.com I'd love to connect with you. If not, I hope your life turns out how you would like 🙂
I've read Neil's book and my husband is at least 85%. We've been married 22 years and I've exhausted all of my time and money. I'd love to leave, but have no place to go and no finances. I crave someone to communicate with; someone to share a meal with; someone to share life with. What can I do that does not constitute adultery?