Quite often, we’ll have comments from readers wondering how they could have been so blind to their spouse’s passive aggression and the toxic feelings they create. Some wives admit that they went back to their husbands multiple times, acquiescing to what the husbands wanted, without really knowing why they took the risk of being hurt […]
How Attached is Your Passive Aggressive Husband to His Mom?
How attached is your passive-aggressive husband to his mother, and how much she influences him? We know that our behaviors are formed by how much love or rejection our mothers give us when we are born and later growing up. But can his present relationship with his mother still influence your passive-aggressive husband’s behavior? The […]
Would you see your passive aggressive husband as a lost child?
Could You See Your Passive Aggressive Husband As a Lost Child? Today, I just want to share this message about any passive-aggressive husband. I’m taking the bold step of describing him as an emotional cripple, a “lost child” who never can believe he is good enough for you… Please, allow me this comment, so different […]
Forgiving yourself to start relationship repair?
Forgiving yourself starts relationship repair! I know that sometimes, you feel at the end of your rope….tired and empty from being in a poor relationship. It gets even worst in this time of the year, with so many pictures of happy families…like you have to face the very image of what is painfully missing from […]
Learning how to love and connect, to have a healthy relationship!
All this year, working on some issues about how to love and connect, we have developed a line of thinking that goes like this: We all have different humans needs, modulated in the shapes that our attachment provided for us. We all have needs for love and connection, but you will express them normally if […]