Is He Passive Aggressive? Many women, confused by their husband’s always defensive response, struggle to put a name on their relationship issues. In some cases the use of passive aggressive behaviours may explain them. This survey goes over a list of passive aggressive reactions, that you can observe in daily life. You are invited to […]
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The Right Moment to Leave a Passive Aggressive Marriage?
When is the right moment to leave? Some time ago, among the many letters from readers, a reader under the name “Kitten” wrote: “I have read the information in this blog. The “changes” in men seem to be because they “see the light” of their horrid ways. How many times does that happen in real […]
Your emotionally unavailable hubby hides behind tech toys?
Too much technology around, and no talk? Remember the good old personal fights of yesterday? We used any opportunity for expressing ourselves with some shouting and strong words, when frustrated and or/disappointed. Don’t take me wrong, personal fighting continues to be normal for a lot of people… What I see now is that normal, nonaggressive […]
The vicious circle of a passive aggressive marriage
The vicious circle of interaction in a passive-aggressive marriage The starting point is not clear. Perhaps she is taking over all domestic responsibilities by herself and he is enjoying the free ride; After some time, she begins resenting the load, and complains to him; He refuses to “understand the problem” and what is expected of […]
Learning how to love and connect, to have a healthy relationship!
All this year, working on some issues about how to love and connect, we have developed a line of thinking that goes like this: We all have different humans needs, modulated in the shapes that our attachment provided for us. We all have needs for love and connection, but you will express them normally if […]