Get more appreciation on Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day invites us to ask: How is our relationship doing? Is there any spark left? Is it the sanctuary against life’s storms we dream it to be? Can we safely express positive emotions to each other? Regardless of the testing and evaluative questions we ask ourselves, remember that there are some deep wishes […]
How Well Are Your Emotional Needs Met?
Here is a Valentine’s Day question: How Well Are your Emotional Needs Met? You have a much better chance of having a long and happy relationship if your emotional needs are met. This is the basic and always forgotten marital contract: each one will provide what is needed to make the other person happy…. One […]
A Xmas Truce in a Passive Aggressive Marriage? Use appreciation!
This is a Christmas proposition….and you are very welcome here! DO you remember the old stories in medieval times, when warring armies would stop the ongoing war and have a peace interval to honor Christmas? The truce story is part of all narratives of combat: the moment when soldiers did stop attacking each other and […]