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Passive Aggressive Husband

Being 50 and ready to divorce a narcissistic husband?

When one of my readers of this blog posted this comment: “I never wanted to use the word “divorce” as an empty threat…but I followed through on the 3rd time & have never looked back.  Personally at 56 years, this is not what I wanted; I just could no longer “continue my slow death” from […]

Why an emotionally unavailable husband is asking: why is she so upset with me?

He keeps asking, bewildered: “Why is she so upset with me?” Sometimes, you find a husband “surprised” at his wife reacting at him with accumulated anger: His “surprise” of course compounds her anger! His denial can only lead to a bigger fight! According to psychology research, we all use defense mechanisms…they are those mental tricks […]

Ways to comfort and appreciate yourself, regardless the toxic relationship!

Appreciate yourself first, regardless!    We are reaching out to the number of those readers who are facing a not so good anniversary….the abusive husband ignores her birthday! Sending our support, and ideas on how to experience a more positive holiday….and the message is: you are not alone! we are thinking on how this challenge […]