Why an emotionally unavailable husband is asking: why is she so upset with me?
He keeps asking, bewildered: “Why is she so upset with me?” Sometimes, you find a husband “surprised” at his wife reacting at him with accumulated anger: His “surprise” of course compounds her anger! His denial can only lead to a bigger fight! According to psychology research, we all use defense mechanisms…they are those mental tricks […]
Seven keys to grow your self-esteem
How to grow your self-esteem Life demands a complicated balance…we are asked to care for the relationship, be ready to listen and understand our partner, and at the same time, coming almost last, is our self-growth. Why is this so? postponing ourselves is doing nothing but forcing us to try to do things for others […]
Hidden roots of passive aggressive anger
The roots of passive aggressive anger are hidden in our early childhood. I tend to do a lot of internet research…perhaps too much. Of my results, I find that I can agree with very little of what is posted out there. Why is this? because most of the postings tend to make of a little […]