When my new life begins in 2010, I want…”
For the New Year, I know what I want; It’s the same wish I always knew: If having someone at my side: He will not make the rules – tell me what I do, where I can go, decide by himself who spends the money and what it’s spent on. If accepting someone’s love, this […]
Stuck in a Passive Aggressive Marriage?
After doing a lot of online research, and having strong arguments with yourself, you had arrived to some unwanted conclusion, and it’s not pretty. Is it true? do you have to accept that you have a passive aggressive husband? Oh my! And then, as you become more and more aware of being in a passive […]
The more independent I become, the more controlling he gets.
When I become more independent, he tends to control me more… There is a complementary dynamics between the two parts of a passive aggressive marriage. This posting in a popular forum expresses it very clearly: “I went back to live with him, canceling my divorce, because I’m scared of what he will throw at […]