Are you hiding your emotional needs under a “nice person” mask?
Are you presenting a “nice person” image of yourself to avoid all confrontations, but keep feeling fake or left out? Is emotional damage now hidden in your present life? As a child you always wanted to be accepted, and you learned some tricks that gave results for a while. Creating a strong image of a […]
Passive aggression and home duties
Is your husband using passive aggression to avoid house chores? In a normal marriage, there is always going on a healthy negotiation about shared tasks, sometimes described as “marital division of labor.” Both can agree in a simple conversation who is going to do what, taking into account the circumstances of each person, but […]
New Year’s resolutions for the wife in a passive aggressive marriage
Are you the love-starved wife? Watching this end of year milestone, it’s easy to look back and ask: where am I, in my life story? what has this last year taught me? Why do I feel so behind, perhaps neglected or not loved? The view perhaps is not encouraging….you can see here and there the […]