Choosing Aggression Means Less Appreciation
In a relationship, because we see our partner as someone we “choose,” we expect them to give us all the attention we crave. This is contrasted to relatives who are given to us, not chosen, and who don’t always give us the support we need. All humans are self-esteem machines – like expensive cars, […]
Divorce the Child, Marry the Husband
You have seen it all: The cold shoulder. The hidden anger and sly sabotage. The denial, the guilt-trips, the loneliness and fear of your own loved one. Why does a passive aggressive husband behave the way that he does? What brings him to cause you and your family pain, yet still claim he loves you? […]