How passive aggressive resistance to growth destroys any remaining love

Sometimes married women write to me asking for advice for desperate situations... Hubby's silence and lack of decision-making drive them into a wall. There is a difference between doing silence as a unique way of dealing with a challenging … [Read more...]

Learning how to love and connect, to have a healthy relationship!

All this year, working on some issues about how to love and connect, we have developed a line of thinking that goes like this: We all have different humans needs, modulated in the shapes that our attachment provided for us. We all have needs for … [Read more...]

What if you had an early warning about his emotionally unavailable heart?

When did you realize he was behaving emotionally unavailable? Would you like to know from the start if your chosen one grew up with a lack of emotional response? I always imagine how my life would have been if someone had sent me a disclaimer, … [Read more...]

Healing the hurt done by emotional abuse

  Are you living with emotional abuse at home? Emotional abuse creeps into a relationship bit by bit...now a bad word, a curse, or a negative comment done in public, and then it escalates into full-blown abuse. As long as the relationship has … [Read more...]

Do you want to begin a new year with a clean slate?

This is a new proposition for better relationships at home, this new year. DO you remember the old stories from medieval times, when warring armies would stop the ongoing war and have a peace interval to honor Christmas? The truce story is part of … [Read more...]