Can you have intimacy with respect for your own emotional needs?
Having intimacy with respect means that you can trust the other person to respect your emotional needs! We are all people in development, with our own issues that can sometimes hurt others…not out of malice, but ignorance and lack of skills at containing each other. Relationships are the schools that teach us how to be […]
A secure partner is a responsive partner
How can we know if a person is a responsive and secure partner? When we imagine a life together with our chosen person, the mainframe of that image has to give us a sense of security. This security is an overall sense of confidence in a partner’s love and commitment to us. It includes also […]
Why couples fight the same battle again and again?
Are you now stuck in a spiral of fighting about the same things again and again? We want to share an excellent article by Sue Johnson, the leading researcher in the field of attachment theory, who describes what’s going on underneath the same old fight. This is the challenge that most couples face: when they […]