Can I count with your help? Are you my secure base?
Do you see me? do you love the things I love? We do all the time little requests for connection from/to each other. The usual “how do you do?” is an opening for a conversation that even when it does not happen, has the possibility installed there. And it is beneficial the same: we tell […]
Why an emotionally unavailable husband is asking: why is she so upset with me?
He keeps asking, bewildered: “Why is she so upset with me?” Sometimes, you find a husband “surprised” at his wife reacting at him with accumulated anger: His “surprise” of course compounds her anger! His denial can only lead to a bigger fight! According to psychology research, we all use defense mechanisms…they are those mental tricks […]
Can you have intimacy with respect for your own emotional needs?
Having intimacy with respect means that you can trust the other person to respect your emotional needs! We are all people in development, with our own issues that can sometimes hurt others…not out of malice, but ignorance and lack of skills at containing each other. Relationships are the schools that teach us how to be […]