From a wider perspective, this game of passive aggression is endless!
Perhaps because it’s summer, I can see more clearly the marital control game going on? Just driving around when a thought exploded in my brain: are we all playing this universal game? Let me explain the “control game,” when both sides push and pull, but are always in the same place? Most men resist growing […]
Can I count with your help? Are you my secure base?
Do you see me? do you love the things I love? We do all the time little requests for connection from/to each other. The usual “how do you do?” is an opening for a conversation that even when it does not happen, has the possibility installed there. And it is beneficial the same: we tell […]
Why an emotionally unavailable husband is asking: why is she so upset with me?
He keeps asking, bewildered: “Why is she so upset with me?” Sometimes, you find a husband “surprised” at his wife reacting at him with accumulated anger: His “surprise” of course compounds her anger! His denial can only lead to a bigger fight! According to psychology research, we all use defense mechanisms…they are those mental tricks […]