How to trust his behaviors?
Balancing trust with self-preservation is a very difficult balancing act….If you want to keep your trust on your husband’s intentions to treat you well and always defend your interests, then you can’t be second-guessing if he is doing passive aggression against you, right? If you decide that is impossible to be for ever watchful, and […]
How do I detach from a passive aggressive husband?
In a very kind letter, Rosy said: “In my own way to learn detachment, there were several moments I do remember as very important for me: The first thing I decided to do: I completely stopped opening a conversation with him about the future of our relationship. Then, I completely stopped touching him or getting […]
He says what I want to hear, but does what he wants to do
Have you ever been in this situation? He constantly devalues me (little put downs but he is always “just joking”). He says what I want to hear and does what he wants to do then makes me crazy with “Well I thought we were just having a conversation. I didn’t realize that you thought we […]