He says what I want to hear, but does what he wants to do
Have you ever been in this situation? He constantly devalues me (little put downs but he is always “just joking”). He says what I want to hear and does what he wants to do then makes me crazy with “Well I thought we were just having a conversation. I didn’t realize that you thought we […]
Passive Aggressive Non-Communication Battles
We need to be talking first about the shared responsibility to keep communication alive in a marriage.
To avoid getting to this place, women usually try to ask, demand, invite and cajole husbands into “better communication.” They even make appointments with counselors and therapists and priests to get help.
How Can I Address his Behavior Without Him Retaliating?
How can I address this behavior without the risk of retaliation? There are very few responses to this question posted in this blog. It’s true that the fear of retaliation is always present. Given that the PA Husband’s behavior is mostly unconscious, any demand to change it will be perceived at the beginning as a […]