Cold Shoulder: how to react?
What is the behavior we call getting or giving the cold shoulder? It is a deliberate discourteous act: the maintenance of aloof silence toward another person who is our relative or spouse as an expression of one’s anger or disapproval. Are you getting the cold shoulder, and you don’t know why? Well, this is the […]
Is it anger or desperation?
What do you see here? Anger o Desperation? The divide between emotional and rational styles to manage disputes are the main hidden factors of our conflicts. The lenses (emotional or rational) we apply to manage a confrontation with our loved one is usually a main contributor to the communication gap we produce and suffer. […]
He says what I want to hear, but does what he wants to do
Have you ever been in this situation? He constantly devalues me (little put downs but he is always “just joking”). He says what I want to hear and does what he wants to do then makes me crazy with “Well I thought we were just having a conversation. I didn’t realize that you thought we […]