How do I detach from a passive aggressive husband?
In a very kind letter, Rosy said: “In my own way to learn detachment, there were several moments I do remember as very important for me: The first thing I decided to do: I completely stopped opening a conversation with him about the future of our relationship. Then, I completely stopped touching him or getting […]
How to enjoy Valentine’s Day!
Let me tell you something…the deep wish under all this Valentine’s Day claptrap is something we don’t dare to mention the rest of the year: TO HAVE A SECURE BUT EXCITING LOVE RELATIONSHIP! How do you combine the two things? Secure is boring….exciting is dangerous….so what gives? For the rest of us, ensconced in a […]
Learn detachment from passive aggression
We have been talking about the difficult skills of “detaching” from the emotional impact caused by the passive aggression. Detaching is observing the behavior of passive aggressiveness without showing a lot of emotion. If you do not react strongly, you do not give the passive aggressive person the emotional control, nor do you give them the […]