When my new life begins in 2010, I want…”
For the New Year, I know what I want; It’s the same wish I always knew: If having someone at my side: He will not make the rules – tell me what I do, where I can go, decide by himself who spends the money and what it’s spent on. If accepting someone’s love, this […]
Healing a Passive Aggressive Marriage?
Is it possible for you to do something to help your passive aggressive husband? It takes courage to go beyond the frustration and anger to see him as a good person trapped in his own old fears…and ignore the thousand frustrations he makes you go through every day. If you are not extremely angry with […]
Verbal Abuse as a Way of Spouse Control
In a toxic relationship, the balance of power is manipulated by one side as to keep the control over the other person’s thoughts and behaviors. In order to make their partner feel inadequate or weak, the controlling person will use verbally abusive tactics as shame, belittling, name-calling and sarcasm. In this way they grab the […]