Why secrecy is part of passive aggression?
One of the poster wrote this suggestion in our site: “How do you deal with a husband that keeps a secret journal and never tells me he is unhappy about anything?” This reader is hitting at the heart of the passive aggression problem. We need to remember first that this kind of behavior a) is […]
How do I detach from a passive aggressive husband?
In a very kind letter, Rosy said: “In my own way to learn detachment, there were several moments I do remember as very important for me: The first thing I decided to do: I completely stopped opening a conversation with him about the future of our relationship. Then, I completely stopped touching him or getting […]
Is it anger or desperation?
What do you see here? Anger o Desperation? The divide between emotional and rational styles to manage disputes are the main hidden factors of our conflicts. The lenses (emotional or rational) we apply to manage a confrontation with our loved one is usually a main contributor to the communication gap we produce and suffer. […]