Why secrecy is part of passive aggression?
One of the poster wrote this suggestion in our site: “How do you deal with a husband that keeps a secret journal and never tells me he is unhappy about anything?” This reader is hitting at the heart of the passive aggression problem. We need to remember first that this kind of behavior a) is […]
How to enjoy Valentine’s Day!
Let me tell you something…the deep wish under all this Valentine’s Day claptrap is something we don’t dare to mention the rest of the year: TO HAVE A SECURE BUT EXCITING LOVE RELATIONSHIP! How do you combine the two things? Secure is boring….exciting is dangerous….so what gives? For the rest of us, ensconced in a […]
Does the Meaning of Passive Aggression is lack of love?
What is the meaning Passive Aggressive behavior? Is the contrary of love? If it not hatred? what is it? perhaps control? Although emotional abusers are not always out to destroy those around them, they are out to control them. Because they have their own ideas about what is right, and how they want things to […]