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Passive Aggressive Husband

Passive aggression has a heavy impact on us…

How does passive aggression impact you? The same one where you go through months and years of silence, confrontation, and no love connection at all? From the answers to our readers, We spend months and years with the gnawing feeling that things are not OK. Going from one crisis to another, our own needs go […]

I’m at my wit’s end with this lonely, sexless marriage!

  A dear reader, Paula has written a long comment in AskNora, that pushed me to reflect on the limitations of my work here. She tells about her lonely marriage. And I can’t personally embrace her, I can’t support her day-to-day up until the moment when she has her life back…so what can I still […]

From a wider perspective, this game of passive aggression is endless!

Perhaps because it’s summer, I can see more clearly the marital control game going on? Just driving around when a thought exploded in my brain: are we all playing this universal game? Let me explain the “control game,” when both sides push and pull, but are always in the same place? Most men resist growing […]