How can we know if a person is a responsive and secure partner? When we imagine a life together with our chosen person, the mainframe of that image has to give us a sense of security. This security is an overall sense of confidence in a partner’s love and commitment to us. It includes also […]
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Still waiting for Prince Charming’s arrival?
Are You Still Waiting for Prince Charming? Are you attached to him? Sometimes, some people need to hope and believe that falling in love will solve all the frustrated needs experienced before. The assumption is: “this person will be in my life, and all my needs for support, companionship, sex, and emotional stability will be […]
How To Trust Someone if you Have an Insecure Attachment Style??
Sometimes we are slow to recognize the red flags in our relationships…perhaps we are needing company just now, and that takes priority over a clear view of the future implications for ourselves and our future. If you consider yourself a insecure person but are in love with someone who is secure, you are open to […]
People with Secure Attachment Style Enjoy Happier Lives
How does a secure attachment style produce happier lives? It appears that there are proven relationships between kinds of attachment, human needs satisfaction, and well-being or distress. It is possible that individuals with attachment security are more likely to experience the satisfaction of their basic psychological needs of autonomy, competence, and love and connection to […]
Letting go of your old insecure attachment?
Letting go of insecure attachment… will change your mindset and this is what you need to live a better life. According to research, our attachment style pre-determines our future relationships style. And for life. What I before used to think, “well, it’s the way I am…” now becomes: “this is the mindset I learned while […]