Passive Aggressive Meaning Stops Connection

Do we connect or do we stop connecting? Many researchers (whether of the brain, psychology or communication and conflict) will agree that when we communicate with others, we are attempting to connect with those people on some deeper emotional … [Read more...]

Fair Fighting at the Holidays Can be Fulfilling, Not Frustrating

Couple hiding angry feelings Wait, you want to be fair fighting at the holiday season, right? Family tension, long to-do lists, in-laws, calendars packed with events and parties... the holidays are fraught with possibilities for conflict.  Yet most … [Read more...]

Are You Fighting to Save Your Love?

© Lela Lee  All your life you’ve been trying to make it work. We all know that even good intentioned efforts can fail when you try to live with other people in love and harmony, and it’s natural to assume that differences will bring some … [Read more...]

The Silent Partner is an Angry Partner

When there is something that irritates your partner, you don't get any inkling of his/her disgust. What you possible get is more silence than before. Have you noticed this response? Here we will learn how to interpret more silence as anger, … [Read more...]