Can Fair Fighting Save Your Love?
WARNING: Your fights are slaughtering your love.
Quick fix:: Use ‘I’ statements, listen like your life depends on it, NEVER attack character. Read the rest NOW.
A Passive Aggressive Marriage Stops Connection
Do we connect or do we stop connecting? Many researchers (whether of the brain, psychology or communication and conflict) will agree that when we communicate with others, we are attempting to connect with those people on some deeper emotional level. This is true of a hurled insult as well as a warm hug. That means […]
Fair Fighting at the Holidays Can be Fulfilling, Not Frustrating
Wait, you want to be fair fighting during the holiday season, right? Family tension, long to-do lists, in-laws, calendars packed with events and parties… the holidays are fraught with possibilities for conflict. Yet most people will tell you the last thing they want to do at Christmas is a fight, again. Everyone wants the holidays […]