I’m at my wit’s end with this lonely, sexless marriage!
A dear reader, Paula has written a long comment in AskNora, that pushed me to reflect on the limitations of my work here. She tells about her lonely marriage. And I can’t personally embrace her, I can’t support her day-to-day up until the moment when she has her life back…so what can I still […]
From a wider perspective, this game of passive aggression is endless!
Perhaps because it’s summer, I can see more clearly the marital control game going on? Just driving around when a thought exploded in my brain: are we all playing this universal game? Let me explain the “control game,” when both sides push and pull, but are always in the same place? Most men resist growing […]
Being 50 and ready to divorce a narcissistic husband?
When one of my readers of this blog posted this comment: “I never wanted to use the word “divorce” as an empty threat…but I followed through on the 3rd time & have never looked back. Personally at 56 years, this is not what I wanted; I just could no longer “continue my slow death” from […]