Rescuing Your Life After a Long PA Marriage
When readers of this blog accept our standing invitation to have a free coaching session, they bring their own stories. Some of them are easier to hear and offer support to; others are heart wrenching. Which stories are the saddest? The ones that present a woman past her fifties, who has spent most of her […]
Teaching Your Husband to Stop: Is This the Cure for Your Unhappiness?
Over the years, most of what we’ve discussed here has been about how to deal with the impact of your husband’s passive aggressive behavior in your life. However, not much attention has gone to helping your husband understand what is going on, and to motivate him to change his ways. But now, we have created […]
Choosing Aggression Means Less Appreciation
In a relationship, because we see our partner as someone we “choose,” we expect them to give us all the attention we crave. This is contrasted to relatives who are given to us, not chosen, and who don’t always give us the support we need. All humans are self-esteem machines – like expensive cars, […]