Fighting a last war that is not real anymore?
The Chinese warrior story: Some months ago, a visited this expo of the Chinese warrior statues. They are all well done, in different postures and so detailed you can think you see a real person in each of them….The story tells us that some King ordered them made to protect him in death. So here […]
How to detach from a passive-aggressive husband’s behaviors
The technique of detaching from a passive-aggressive husband’s behaviors It’s not so frequent to receive a deep, nice email from a person reading this blog and giving feedback…She was reading this post again and again, up until some basic idea clicked in her brain….It was, basically, to force herself to detach. Was it difficult? Of […]
How to resuscitate a dying marriage
Wishing to resuscitate a dying marriage just now? I just received some reader’s letter, where she describes her utter desolation because she is watching her ex-husband doing to his new fiancée all those nice behaviors she was dreaming of: being attentive, showing care, sharing his time, introducing her to everyone, praising her in public, etc. […]