When emotional needs are ignored, what we need to have is conflicts!
Sometimes, couples fight to reconnect because their emotional needs are ignored Of all the issues included in past posts, comments, and insights about emotional needs in a couple, today I want to offer a basic piece of information that perhaps can be a big “aha” point in your day. When we talk about different […]
Fighting a last war that is not real anymore?
The Chinese warrior story: Some months ago, a visited this expo of the Chinese warrior statues. They are all well done, in different postures and so detailed you can think you see a real person in each of them….The story tells us that some King ordered them made to protect him in death. So here […]
Passive Aggression as a Defensive Skill?
Why using passive aggression as a defensive skill in a personal relationship? I now think passive aggression is selected to be used as a defensive skill to protect against a controlling parent or person from the past. The child, unable to leave, or to confront, takes this third way: to simulate compliance while rebelling internally….and […]