All this year, working on some issues about how to love and connect, we have developed a line of thinking that goes like this: We all have different humans needs, modulated in the shapes that our attachment provided for us. We all have needs for love and connection, but you will express them normally if […]
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Relationships are never frozen but moving ahead…
Sometimes,we see situations as frozen in time…completely fixated and impervious to change. Is really difficult to perceive the constant change we are going through…and it is easy to deny same changes in our partners..Our loved ones are also changing in front of us,and such change will ask from us some adapting, either we like it […]
How Well Are Your Emotional Needs Met?
Here is a Valentine’s Day question: How Well Are your Emotional Needs Met? You have a much better chance of having a long and happy relationship if your emotional needs are met. This is the basic and always forgotten marital contract: each one will provide what is needed to make the other person happy…. One […]
Can you do Fair Fighting to Save Your Love?
Do you know about fair fighting to save your love? ll your life you’ve been trying to make this relationship work. We all know that even good-intentioned efforts can fail when you try to live with other people in love and harmony all the time, and it’s natural to assume that differences will bring some […]
Do you dream of a marriage at peace?
How can you have a marriage at peace? Probably we all marry with as little preparation and understanding of the marital dynamics as we can. Uncounted moments of marital strife can erase the magic of the first encounter, and whittle away any hope left of understanding each other…. We have worked here on issues of […]