All this year, working on some issues about how to love and connect, we have developed a line of thinking that goes like this: We all have different humans needs, modulated in the shapes that our attachment provided for us. We all have needs for love and connection, but you will express them normally if […]
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Is Your Love Story Rooted in Your Attachment Style?
How much our present love is rooted in an old attachment style? When we fall in love, the influence of this powerful emotion in us makes our perception to expand. Feeling secure and trusting, we tell each other everything; and our frustrations and negative experiences go away. We feel alive, smarter, sexier, and expansive to […]
Relationships are never frozen but moving ahead…
Sometimes,we see situations as frozen in time…completely fixated and impervious to change. Is really difficult to perceive the constant change we are going through…and it is easy to deny same changes in our partners..Our loved ones are also changing in front of us,and such change will ask from us some adapting, either we like it […]
How Well Are Your Emotional Needs Met?
Here is a Valentine’s Day question: How Well Are your Emotional Needs Met? You have a much better chance of having a long and happy relationship if your emotional needs are met. This is the basic and always forgotten marital contract: each one will provide what is needed to make the other person happy…. One […]
Do you dream of a marriage at peace?
How can you have a marriage at peace? Probably we all marry with as little preparation and understanding of the marital dynamics as we can. Uncounted moments of marital strife can erase the magic of the first encounter, and whittle away any hope left of understanding each other…. We have worked here on issues of […]