Why using a defensive skill in a personal relationship? I now think passive aggression behavior is selected to be used as a defensive skill to protect against a controlling parent or person from the past. The child, unable to leave, or to confront, … [Read more...]
Passive Aggression as a Defensive Skill?
April 4, 2014 by Nora Femenia ·
Filed Under: Passive Aggressive Husband, power battle · Tagged With: childhood resistance, childhood wounds, cold shoulder, control, detachment, emotional needs, emotionally dependent, frustrated, hidden anger, isolation, resentment, sabotaging, unhappiness
Are childhood wounds part of your love story now?
March 4, 2014 by Nora Femenia ·
When we fall in love, the influence of this powerful emotion in us makes our perception to expand. Feeling secure and trusting, we tell each other everything; and our frustrations and negative experiences go away. We feel alive, smarter, sexier, and … [Read more...]
Filed Under: attachment style · Tagged With: appreciation, attachment, childhood wounds, emotional needs, emotionally dependent, expectations, frustrated, happiness, hidden anger, respect, unhappiness
