Get more appreciation on Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day invites us to ask: How is our relationship doing? Is there any spark left? Is it the sanctuary against life’s storms we dream it to be? Can we safely express positive emotions to each other? Regardless of the testing and evaluative questions we ask ourselves, remember that there are some deep wishes […]
A Xmas Truce in a Passive Aggressive Marriage? Use appreciation!
This is a Christmas proposition….and you are very welcome here! DO you remember the old stories in medieval times, when warring armies would stop the ongoing war and have a peace interval to honor Christmas? The truce story is part of all narratives of combat: the moment when soldiers did stop attacking each other and […]
New Year’s resolutions for the wife in a passive aggressive marriage
Are you the love-starved wife? Watching this end of year milestone, it’s easy to look back and ask: where am I, in my life story? what has this last year taught me? Why do I feel so behind, perhaps neglected or not loved? The view perhaps is not encouraging….you can see here and there the […]