When I feel that he is “Isolating Me from My Family,” the dream I’m yearning for is… integration.
Responses expressed dreams consistent with these:
1. “I want my family to be a part of our life together. They aren’t, and I know it’s because he doesn’t want them to know that he behaves like a child the majority of the time. However, he won’t admit that this is the reason, or address the problem. In fact, he doesn’t give me any reason at all. My family just isn’t allowed to be included.”
2. “I would like to feel free to have my parents and brothers, nephew and niece over to my house at any time. I can’t do that, because he doesn’t want to spend time with them, and he doesn’t see that they’re important or that time with them is important. It isn’t enough for him that they’re special to me.”
3. “My dream is that he would see that our whole family, whether it’s his, mine, or ours, all are connected, and that their relationship should be fostered. If the relationship with his family is bad, I want him to work on it, not ignore them and think that I have to do the same with my family.”
In what other ways would you know that he accepts and supports your family?
• “We surround ourselves with family whom we love and who loves us back.”
• “He is always cordial to my family and helps my relationship with them blossom.”
• “He never manipulates me or makes me look bad in front of my family.”
• “He genuinely loves my family, and opens his heart to every member.”
I simply need to have a happy family around.
