Why an emotionally unavailable husband is asking: why is she so upset with me?

He keeps asking, bewildered: "Why is she so upset with me?" Sometimes, you find a husband "surprised" at his wife reacting at him with accumulated anger: His "surprise" of course compounds her anger! His denial can only lead to a bigger … [Read more...]

Your emotionally unavailable hubby hides behind tech toys?

 Too much technology around, and no talk? Remember the good old personal fights of yesterday? We used any opportunity for expressing ourselves with some shouting and strong words, when frustrated and or/disappointed.  Don't take me wrong, personal … [Read more...]

“Don’t get near, I am emotionally unavailable and we will never connect…”

Emotionally unavailable partner? We understand!   Let’s imagine a person has been deeply wounded in childhood, with the results that he doesn’t believes that relationships work and that he can be loved, or respected by someone, and that … [Read more...]

Low self-esteem living with an emotionally unavailable spouse

Is your self-esteem getting low and lower?  Living with someone who is usually withdrawn and detached from you is heavy punishment to your self-esteem. Either you have selected this person to share your life because you need to compensate for past … [Read more...]

How to Deal With a Passive Aggressive Husband

There is a slow progression in the process of realizing the main cause of some spousal behaviors. First you feel that something is odd, because you have some feelings of hurt that don’t correspond with the objective situation…you are happily … [Read more...]