Comments on: How to trust his behaviors?

By: ladynessa09@aol.com

ladynessa09@aol.com — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 08:15:49 +0000

I married him seven years ago, one month ago I came home from work, as soon as i walk in the door the phone rang and it was him, saying he's left, he took some of his things, he needs time; I put him under to much pressure. I did'nt know at the time or over the past seven years that he was passive aggressive. I've just started reading about this a week ago, although I knew that there was something wrong with him. I could'nt get him to go to counseling or talk about what was wrong with him, or talk about him neglecting our marriage avoiding me. Well he's gone now and I FEEL SORRY FOR HIS NEXT VICTIM.

By: Nora

Nora — Fri, 04 Jun 2010 18:55:25 +0000

Dear Katherine,
I really appreciate you taking the time to leave such an encouraging message….it means a lot to us!
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Sending you lots of peace and love from here, thanks again for visiting,
Nora

By: Katherine

Katherine — Fri, 04 Jun 2010 17:48:32 +0000

Thank you for this. It really feels good to know that there is someone out there who understands PA and provides us with practical information on overcoming this taxing condition effecting our marriages. The Lord continue to bless you and your ministry.

By: Nora Femenia

Nora Femenia — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 19:19:52 +0000

Dear Linda,
nothing wrong with marrying a child, when you don't know who the person is in a deep sense. We all have to help each other by mothering, fathering or marrying other people! that is called life. The sour point is when the other side has not “read the fine line of the marriage contract,” and aspires only to be cared for, obeyed and taken care of, unilaterally, for ever, and doesn't want to grow!
I strongly suggest that you read our FREE ebook: “Healthy marriage,” so we can share some of the ideas about relationships that we use here. Probably you can find them silly or useless, but they will help start a good discussion about the deeper meaning of relationships as tools for us to grow, learn and develop into the person we need to be.
Thanks for writing!

By: Linda

Linda — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 05:14:52 +0000

You have got to be KIDDING! What kind of marriage is that? What is the point of having a husband, if you have to be his mother? I don't read trust into this scenario. If you trusted him. then you would not feel the need to remind him and have a backup plan. We are all tired of having to be the B.