December 5, 2011 – 3:01 pm
Confrontations don’t just magically stop happening! To handle conflict correctly and learn from past mistakes, partners need a protocol to manage life’s inevitable confrontations and they need to know how to do relationship repair. We don’t often think past getting into a relationship – but taking care of a relationship is just as important! Managing confrontations [...]
By Neil Warner
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Posted in assertiveness, Relationship Repair
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Also tagged appreciation, communication, control, emotional dependence, emotional needs, loneliness, love, marriage, relationship repair, self-esteem
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Conflict Coach presents a new, effective way for men to end couple’s miscommunication and its associated pain. Miscommunication in marriage is a common problem. Men and women, depending on the ways they were raised or how their parents communicated, can both talk in ways that don’t always fit the bill for making communication easy and [...]
By Neil Warner
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Posted in assertiveness, impact of passive aggression, passive aggressive behavior, Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive personality
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Also tagged cold shoulder, disengaged feeling, emotional abuse, passive aggressive behavior, passive aggressive communication, Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive test
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Passive aggressive behavior from a husband is not a reaction to the present wife or the present relationship; rather, it is a learned model of interpersonal attachment, wired in a person’s brain early in life. It is a pattern learned from the interaction with the mother or caretaker, who taught him in his first year [...]
By Neil Warner
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Posted in passive aggressive behavior, passive aggressive definition, Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive marriage, passive aggressive personality
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Also tagged attachment patterns, attachment styles, communication, conflict, conflict coach, conflict resolution, emotional dependence, emotional needs, healthy marriage, identity, isolation, passive aggression, passive aggressive behavior, Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive husbands, passive aggressive marriage, rejection, relationship conflict, respect, security, self-esteem
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April 22, 2011 – 10:52 am
How does passive aggression kill the communication and love in a relationship? Wives of passive aggressive husbands share their stories. He has done a lot of the following behaviors to me: Saying he will do something and not doing it; Doing something half-assed, and then blaming me for attacking him when I confront him; Never [...]
By Neil Warner
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Posted in impact of passive aggression, passive aggressive behavior, Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive marriage, passive aggressive personality, toxic relationship
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Also tagged attacks, blame, cold shoulder, communication, control, detachment, disengaged feeling, isolation, passive aggression, passive aggressive behavior, Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive marriage, resentment, responses, retaliation, silent partner
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February 28, 2011 – 3:36 pm
When you have a fight with your spouse, you can use different strategies to get your point across. You can yell, you can calmly explain your point of view, or if you are feeling misunderstood, offended or upset you can withdraw into stony silence. If we look at long term impact of these different communication [...]
By Neil Warner
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Posted in impact of passive aggression, passive aggressive behavior, Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive marriage
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Also tagged appreciation, cold shoulder, communication, disengaged feeling, isolation, loneliness, passive aggression, passive aggressive marriage, silence, silent partner
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