Reflecting on the conversations going on at AskNora, we can see the common pattern of suffering described by the writers. Each one has a story where her own hopes of a happy life were thwarted by passive aggressive behavior. They were left in what looked like a marriage, but was a well of frustration and [...]
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Also tagged communication, control, disengaged feeling, emotional abause, hidden anger, isolation, loneliness, passive aggression, passive aggressive behavior, Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive marriage, passive aggressive wife, security, self-esteem, unhappiness
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Have you been sometimes daydreaming of giving your PA husband a spoonful of his own medicine? Are you really tired of balancing and compensating the day to day tasks he leaves undone? ever think of turning tables on him? This is the strategy called ‘fighting fire with fire.’ If your passive aggressive partner is used [...]
One of the poster wrote this suggestion in our site: “How do you deal with a husband that keeps a secret journal and never tells me he is unhappy about anything?” This reader is hitting at the heart of the passive aggression problem. We need to remember first that this kind of behavior a) is [...]
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Posted in Passive Aggressive Husband, assertiveness, impact of passive aggression, passive aggressive definition, passive aggressive personality
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Also tagged control, detachment, disengaged feeling, frustrated, hidden anger, isolation, loneliness, passive aggression, passive aggressive marriage, sadness, security, silent partner, unhappiness
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February 17, 2010 – 7:34 pm
In a very kind letter, Rosy said: “In my own way to learn detachment, there were several moments I do remember as very important for me: The first thing I decided to do: I completely stopped opening a conversation with him about the future of our relationship. Then, I completely stopped touching him or getting [...]
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Posted in Passive Aggressive Husband, assertiveness
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Also tagged confusion, emotional dependence, expectations, frustrated, hidden anger, isolation, loneliness, passive aggressive behavior, Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive marriage, resentment, sabotaging, unhappiness
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August 27, 2009 – 11:39 am
The divide between emotional and rational styles to manage disputes are the main hidden factors of our conflicts. The lenses (emotional or rational) we apply to manage a confrontation with our loved one is usually a main contributor to the communication gap we produce and suffer. Here is an online conversation between a poster in [...]