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How do I detach from a passive aggressive husband?

In a very kind letter, Rosy said:
“In my own way to learn detachment, there were several moments I do remember as very important for me:
The first thing I decided to do: I completely stopped opening a conversation with him about the future of our relationship.
Then, I completely stopped touching him or getting near him [...]

Is it anger or desperation?

The divide between emotional and rational styles to manage disputes are the main hidden factors of our conflicts. The lenses (emotional or rational) we apply to manage a confrontation with our loved one is usually a main contributor to the communication gap we produce and suffer.
Here is an online conversation between a poster in a [...]

The Silent Partner is an Angry Partner

When there is something that irritates your partner, you don’t get any inkling of his/her disgust. What you possible get is more silence than before. Have you noticed this response?
Here we will learn how to interpret more silence as anger, repressed anger from a partner.
There is no reason someone would fell suddenly silent, if she [...]

Spouse control means lack of respect

Although emotional abusers are not always out to destroy those around them, they are out to control them. Because they have their own ideas about what is right, and how they want things to be, they see themselves as enforcers of the “right way.”
Once you accept that you are in this world to control [...]

Passive Aggressive Non-Communication Battles

We need to be talking first about the shared responsibility to keep communication alive in a marriage.
To avoid getting to this place, women usually try to ask, demand, invite and cajole husbands into “better communication.” They even make appointments with counselors and therapists and priests to get help.

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