Is your inner child causing your sexless marriage now?

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 Are you secretly scared of intimacy?   Just looking at our past attachment conversations, we learned that having a secure attachment allows you to trust your partner so much as to be able to open up to intimacy. The body of another … [Read more...]

Feeling That an Important Part of Your Marriage is Missing?

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Are You In a Sexless Marriage? Here and there, the sexless marriage part of being in a passive aggressive marriage raises it head, so we have sad comments like these on this site comments page: "Two years ago my husband stopped touching me … [Read more...]

How well do you do marital fighting?

Is there a way to do marital fighting that enhances the relationship? Present life is really hectic. So much time we spend distracted with so many sources of confusion...we have sounds, phone calls, messages to take care of. It's like as if we are … [Read more...]

Mother’s Day Card from my Hubby to his Mother…

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  What show of affection are you getting this year? (FROM AN EMAIL JUST RECEIVED FROM CELINE, A READER....THANKS FOR THIS GORGEOUS EXAMPLE OF PASSIVE AGGRESSIVE COMMUNICATION!)         "I just found that my mother in law is going to get this … [Read more...]

Why do we have to live in difficult relationships?

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IF LIFE IS LEARNING, what is that you need to learn in difficult relationships? The basics of learning in life are given to us in that school called “relationships.” We all need relationships to survive at birth and later to develop and … [Read more...]