August 2, 2010 – 12:17 pm
When I feel that “I’m Humiliated in Public,” the dream I’m yearning for is… respect and equality. Some 84 % of the responses expressed dreams consistent with: 1. “I would like to feel that he is there to prevent injustice, not perpetuate it. It is a double standard, because he would never stand for any [...]
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Posted in Passive Aggressive Husband, impact of passive aggression, passive aggressive behavior, passive aggressive definition, passive aggressive marriage, passive aggressive personality
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Also tagged appreciation, attacks, blame, control, emotional needs, expectations, happiness, honor, humiliation, hurt, respect, self-esteem, unhappiness
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Reflecting on the conversations going on at AskNora, we can see the common pattern of suffering described by the writers. Each one has a story where her own hopes of a happy life were thwarted by passive aggressive behavior. They were left in what looked like a marriage, but was a well of frustration and [...]
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Posted in Passive Aggressive Husband
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Also tagged communication, control, disengaged feeling, emotional abause, hidden anger, isolation, loneliness, passive aggression, passive aggressive behavior, Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive marriage, passive aggressive wife, self-esteem, silence, unhappiness
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One of the poster wrote this suggestion in our site: “How do you deal with a husband that keeps a secret journal and never tells me he is unhappy about anything?” This reader is hitting at the heart of the passive aggression problem. We need to remember first that this kind of behavior a) is [...]
By alfaprima
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Posted in Passive Aggressive Husband, assertiveness, impact of passive aggression, passive aggressive definition, passive aggressive personality
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Also tagged control, detachment, disengaged feeling, frustrated, hidden anger, isolation, loneliness, passive aggression, passive aggressive marriage, sadness, silence, silent partner, unhappiness
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February 3, 2010 – 3:23 pm
Let me tell you something…the deep wish under all this Valentine’s Day claptrap is something we don’t dare to mention the rest of the year: TO HAVE A SECURE BUT EXCITING LOVE RELATIONSHIP! How do you combine the two things? Secure is boring….exciting is dangerous….so what gives? For the rest of us, ensconced in a [...]
August 15, 2009 – 6:35 pm
Although emotional abusers are not always out to destroy those around them, they are out to control them. Because they have their own ideas about what is right, and how they want things to be, they see themselves as enforcers of the “right way.” Once you accept that you are in this world to control [...]