Tag Archives: security

Humiliated in public? this is what you need now!

When I feel that “I’m Humiliated in Public,” the dream I’m yearning for is… respect and equality. Some 84 % of the responses expressed dreams consistent with: 1. “I would like to feel that he is there to prevent injustice, not perpetuate it. It is a double standard, because he would never stand for any [...]

What are your dreams of a healthy, happy relationship?

Reflecting on the conversations going on at AskNora, we can see the common pattern of suffering described by the writers. Each one has a story where her own hopes of a happy life were thwarted by passive aggressive behavior. They were left in what looked like a marriage, but was a well of frustration and [...]

Why secrecy is part of passive aggression?

One of the poster wrote this suggestion in our site: “How do you deal with a husband that keeps a secret journal and never tells me he is unhappy about anything?” This reader is hitting at the heart of the passive aggression problem. We need to remember first that this kind of behavior a) is [...]

How to enjoy Valentine’s Day!

Let me tell you something…the deep wish under all this Valentine’s Day claptrap is something we don’t dare to mention the rest of the year: TO HAVE A SECURE BUT EXCITING LOVE RELATIONSHIP! How do you combine the two things? Secure is boring….exciting is dangerous….so what gives? For the rest of us, ensconced in a [...]

Spouse control means lack of respect

Although emotional abusers are not always out to destroy those around them, they are out to control them. Because they have their own ideas about what is right, and how they want things to be, they see themselves as enforcers of the “right way.” Once you accept that you are in this world to control [...]

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