Your dreams are so heart-felt and moving that I have to read them a bit at a time…they are so powerful and moving! We will share some reflections on them soon, but first let me give you a taste of the issues we are dealing with here:
The core of some messages goes deep into the issue of IDENTITY:
By alfaprima
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Posted in assertiveness, passive aggressive marriage
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Also tagged control, disengaged feeling, emotional dependence, expectations, hidden anger, isolation, passive aggression, rejection, resentment, responses, self-esteem, unhappiness
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Reflecting on the conversations going on at AskNora, we can see the common pattern of suffering described by the writers. Each one has a story where her own hopes of a happy life were thwarted by passive aggressive behavior. They were left in what looked like a marriage, but was a well of frustration and [...]
By alfaprima
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Posted in Passive Aggressive Husband
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Also tagged communication, control, disengaged feeling, emotional abause, hidden anger, isolation, loneliness, passive aggression, passive aggressive behavior, passive aggressive marriage, passive aggressive wife, security, self-esteem, silence, unhappiness
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Have you been sometimes daydreaming of giving your PA husband a spoonful of his own medicine? Are you really tired of balancing and compensating the day to day tasks he leaves undone? ever think of turning tables on him? This is the strategy called ‘fighting fire with fire.’ If your passive aggressive partner is used [...]
We hear this question all the time, here and there. Well intentioned wives ask this question out of their loving hearts, still assuming that this kind of change is possible. They need any bit of hope they can get so much! Let’s try an answer here: First, he needs to want to change, but really, [...]
By alfaprima
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Posted in Passive Aggressive Husband, assertiveness, impact of passive aggression, passive aggressive behavior, passive aggressive personality
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Also tagged control, emotional abause, emotional dependence, frustrated, isolation, passive aggression, passive aggressive behavior, passive aggressive marriage, resentment
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We have this exciting partnership with this blog: PAdontstandforpaloalto.wordpress.com and some days ago I sent to Ladybeams, its owner, a 10 questions survey to answer. She posted the questions in her own site, and the answers are coming, strong and clear. There is a lot that you can learn going through other women’s experiences, right? [...]