When I feel like “I’m Walking on Eggshells,” the dream I’m yearning for is… confidence. An overwhelming 92% of the responses expressed dreams consistent with the following wishes: 1. “I wish that he loved to hear what I had to say and that it was as important to him as it was to me. I [...]
By alfaprima
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Posted in Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive behavior, passive aggressive marriage, passive aggressive personality
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Also tagged attacks, blame, cold shoulder, disengaged feeling, emotional abuse, emotional needs, frustrated, put downs, self-esteem
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Days ago, we invited you to answer a survey about your dreams of happiness in a relationship. There were several questions, of which this is the first. We will publish the others shortly. Here are your answers, expressing a deeply felt dream in this way: When “My Emotional Needs are Ignored,” the dream I’m yearning for [...]
By alfaprima
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Posted in Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive behavior, passive aggressive marriage, passive aggressive personality
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Also tagged care, communication, disengaged feeling, emotional needs, happiness, loneliness, passive aggression, Passive Aggressive Husband, respect, unhappiness
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We have this exciting partnership with this blog: PAdontstandforpaloalto.wordpress.com and some days ago I sent to Ladybeams, its owner, a 10 questions survey to answer. She posted the questions in her own site, and the answers are coming, strong and clear. There is a lot that you can learn going through other women’s experiences, right? [...]
February 25, 2010 – 1:49 pm
Balancing trust with self-preservation is a very difficult balancing act….If you want to keep your trust on your husband’s intentions to treat you well and always defend your interests, then you can’t be second-guessing if he is doing passive aggression against you, right? If you decide that is impossible to be for ever watchful, and [...]
By alfaprima
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Posted in Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive behavior, passive aggressive personality
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Also tagged blame, confusion, emotional dependence, expectations, frustrated, hidden anger, hurt, loneliness, passive aggressive marriage, rejection, sabotaging
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February 3, 2010 – 3:23 pm
Let me tell you something…the deep wish under all this Valentine’s Day claptrap is something we don’t dare to mention the rest of the year: TO HAVE A SECURE BUT EXCITING LOVE RELATIONSHIP! How do you combine the two things? Secure is boring….exciting is dangerous….so what gives? For the rest of us, ensconced in a [...]