The Passive Aggressive Dance

WE ARE STUCK IN THIS DANCE: HERS HIS I feel let down, isolated, and lonely. If I  confront you to get you to see what is hurting me and come back to me.. It Just Drives You Away, You became defensive and justify … [Read more...]

Is Your Passive Aggressive Husband in Denial?

Some of the hardest tasks in healing the passive aggressive man are dealing with his various ways of denying his own behavior. What are the ways a passive aggressive may deny his toxic behavior? There are four main kinds to discuss here: • … [Read more...]

How to talk to a resistant husband?

Have you ever despaired of being understood, repressing those feelings of isolation and despair inside you? And why? Because you are afraid of creating a worse conflict if you speak up! My best friend, Anne, was at the end of her rope. Of course she … [Read more...]

Is he always fighting against your ideas?

When I feel that he is “Always Fighting against My Ideas,” the dream I’m yearning for is… team work. There were some responses (58%) telling about this dream situation: 1. “My dream is to feel that I am half of a whole: he supports … [Read more...]

Do you have his support when you cry?

When I feel that he is “Punishing Me for Crying,” the dream I’m yearning for is… comfort. Most of the responses (68%) expressed dreams around the following insights: 1. “I wish that he honestly cared and was concerned when he saw that … [Read more...]