We hear this question all the time, here and there. Well intentioned wives ask this question out of their loving hearts, still assuming that this kind of change is possible. They need any bit of hope they can get so much! Let’s try an answer here: First, he needs to want to change, but really, [...]
One of the poster wrote this suggestion in our site: “How do you deal with a husband that keeps a secret journal and never tells me he is unhappy about anything?” This reader is hitting at the heart of the passive aggression problem. We need to remember first that this kind of behavior a) is [...]
Sometimes in life, decisions are not so clear cut. You know that you are not completely happy, but for different reasons you decide to stay and make the best of the situation you are in. Or you have young children at home, and you think they need the complete family around…whatever your situation, you have [...]
Balancing trust with self-preservation is a very difficult balancing act….If you want to keep your trust on your husband’s intentions to treat you well and always defend your interests, then you can’t be second-guessing if he is doing passive aggression against you, right? If you decide that is impossible to be for ever watchful, and [...]
In a very kind letter, Rosy said: “In my own way to learn detachment, there were several moments I do remember as very important for me: The first thing I decided to do: I completely stopped opening a conversation with him about the future of our relationship. Then, I completely stopped touching him or getting [...]
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