Tag Archives: expectations

A Xmas Truce in a Passive Aggressive Marriage?

This is a Christmas proposition….and you are very welcome here! DO you remember the old stories in medieval times, when warring armies would stop the ongoing war and have a peace interval to honor Christmas? The truce story is part of all narratives of combat: the moment when soldiers did stop attacking each other and [...]

How to deal with passive aggressive husband

Are you in the middle of another crisis at home? Another situation where you feel overwhelmed and unhappy? And just now, can you see the conversation going the usual way: a dance of accusations and defensive silence or denial? And worst:  nothing gets explained, agreed or settled ever? Steps to turn a present crisis into [...]

Charismatic PA: How Victims Fall into the Abuser’s Trap

What causes a woman to continue following a passive aggressive person, tolerating his lack of connection and using her love and time with him instead of taking care of herself, her family and friends? Charisma plays a huge role in attracting and keeping a victim in an unhealthy relationship. It is not necessarily looks that [...]

Balancing Passive Aggression Strategy 2

Sometimes, the easiest strategy to balance passive aggression is to stop pushing, claiming or requesting… This is called the Russian strategy, like when the locals were withdrawing into the woods leaving the field empty to Napoleon’s soldiers… No resistance, no guerrilla activity, nothing. No support, show of interest or fear whatsoever. How do you do [...]

Does he attack you in public?

When I feel that he is “Attacking Me in Public,” the dream I’m yearning for is… protection first and recognition always. About 60% of responses expressed dreams like these: 1. “I wish I could feel safe and trust him completely, knowing he would never turn on me and try to bring me down. However, he [...]

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