Can you have intimacy with respect?

 Having intimacy with respect means that you can trust the other person not to hurt you We are all people in development, with our own issues that can sometimes hurt others...not out of malice, but ignorance and lack of skills at containing each … [Read more...]

Is it Love Or Marital Control ?

Are You Under Marital Control?  Marital control is too common, almost automatic... done by finding ways of putting down the other. Perhaps we should be teaching this lesson to our 5-year-old daughters, so they grow up aware of what expects … [Read more...]

Hidden roots of passive aggressive anger

The roots of passive aggressive anger are hidden in our early childhood. I tend to do a lot of internet research...perhaps too much. Of my results, I find that I can agree with very little of what is posted out there. Why is this? because most of … [Read more...]

Tips on how to keep a sane mind, in the midst of confusion?

Keep a sane mind regardless the confusion around you! Being able to recognize every day who you are, what you are here for....pretty basic stuff, isn't? I do remember that in my past work as a therapist in a psychiatric hospital, our everyday … [Read more...]

Too many tech toys, and no talk?

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Too much technology around, and no talk? Remember the good old personal fights of yesterday? We used any opportunity for expressing ourselves with some shouting and strong words, when frustrated and or/disappointed.  Don't take me wrong, fighting … [Read more...]