Tag Archives: detachment

Is he always fighting against your ideas?

When I feel that he is “Always Fighting against My Ideas,” the dream I’m yearning for is… team work. There were some responses (58%) telling about this dream situation: 1. “My dream is to feel that I am half of a whole: he supports me, I support him, and together we make one whole couple [...]

Do you have his support when you cry?

When I feel that he is “Punishing Me for Crying,” the dream I’m yearning for is… comfort. Most of the responses (68%) expressed dreams around the following insights: 1. “I wish that he honestly cared and was concerned when he saw that I was crying. I wish he could see that I’m hurting, pure and [...]

Why secrecy is part of passive aggression?

One of the poster wrote this suggestion in our site: “How do you deal with a husband that keeps a secret journal and never tells me he is unhappy about anything?” This reader is hitting at the heart of the passive aggression problem. We need to remember first that this kind of behavior a) is [...]

Learn to detach from passive aggression

We have been talking about the difficult skills of “detaching” from the emotional impact caused by the passive aggression. Detaching is observing the behavior without showing a lot of emotion.  If you do not react strongly, you do not give the passive aggressive person the emotional control, nor do you give them the opportunity to turn [...]

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