We have been talking about the difficult skills of “detaching” from the emotional impact caused by the passive aggression.
Detaching is observing the behavior without showing a lot of emotion. If you do not react strongly, you do not give the passive aggressive person the emotional control, nor do you give them the opportunity to turn the [...]
For the New Year, I know what I want;
It’s the same wish I always knew:
If having someone at my side:
He will not make the rules – tell me what I do, where I can go, decide by himself who spends the money and what it’s spent on.
If accepting someone’s love, this love will not be:
Conditioning [...]
Have you ever had one of those fights with your spouse where you just explode while your mate just looks at you calmly, making you feel like you have lost your mind?
He’ll call you crazy and brush off what had made you so upset in the first place. Lets rewind and take a look at [...]
Although emotional abusers are not always out to destroy those around them, they are out to control them. Because they have their own ideas about what is right, and how they want things to be, they see themselves as enforcers of the “right way.”
Once you accept that you are in this world to control [...]
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