Having both: Crisis and Resilience in our lives?

Crisis and Resilience go together...and we learn best under duress! We all go through rough periods, when we feel that being under duress, and responding to unexpected pressures coming from all angles drive us crazy....All the time the crisis is on … [Read more...]

People Securely Attached Enjoy Happier Lives

Loving Woman Embracing Man From Behind At Home

How does a secure attachment connect with happier lives? It appears that there are proven relationships between kinds of attachment, human needs satisfaction, and well-being or distress. It is possible that individuals with attachment security … [Read more...]

Do you Ignore, Suffer, or Confront Passive Aggressive Behavior?

  What is Best: Ignore, Suffer or Confront Passive Aggressive Behavior? Here is really the obnoxious situation that spouses complain about: the moment when you realize that your partner is avoiding going along with you using some passive … [Read more...]

Passive Aggression as a Defensive Skill?

Why using a defensive skill in a personal relationship? I now think passive aggression behavior is selected to be used as a defensive skill to protect against a controlling parent or person from the past. The child, unable to leave, or to confront, … [Read more...]

Learn How to Use Logic Over Emotions, to Negotiate With Him

Use Logic Over Emotions to Negotiate Better? Women firmly believe that communication in a couple works when we share what we feel. In our female to female conversations, what happens is that the other person feels invited to share also her feelings. … [Read more...]