We have this exciting partnership with this blog: PAdontstandforpaloalto.wordpress.com and some days ago I sent to Ladybeams, its owner, a 10 questions survey to answer. She posted the questions in her own site, and the answers are coming, strong and clear. There is a lot that you can learn going through other women’s experiences, right? [...]
Sometimes in life, decisions are not so clear cut. You know that you are not completely happy, but for different reasons you decide to stay and make the best of the situation you are in. Or you have young children at home, and you think they need the complete family around…whatever your situation, you have [...]
By alfaprima
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Posted in Passive Aggressive Husband, assertiveness, passive aggressive behavior, passive aggressive marriage, passive aggressive personality
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Also tagged emotional dependence, frustrated, hidden anger, loneliness, passive aggression, passive aggressive behavior, Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive marriage
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There is a nice letter asking to comment on “resistance activities” as in, “how can I resist one of my husband’s favorite tricks, such as over-promising and never delivering”? Perhaps there is a way…Given that passive-aggressive people generally operate most effectively when they are in one-on-one conversations, its spell is contingent upon intimate conversations, one [...]
After all those married years, one fine morning the view got projected into your vision, and you discovered the real name of this empty, cold and disappointing relationship. You understood that you have spent your married life in this barren state of mind that is a passive aggressive marriage. Lost are the initial illusions of [...]
By norafem
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Posted in Passive Aggressive Husband, assertiveness, passive aggressive behavior, passive aggressive personality
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Also tagged attacks, cold shoulder, disengaged feeling, emotional dependence, expectations, hidden anger, loneliness, passive aggression, passive aggressive behavior, Passive Aggressive Husband, passive aggressive marriage, passive resistance, rejection, self-esteem
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February 3, 2010 – 3:23 pm
Let me tell you something…the deep wish under all this Valentine’s Day claptrap is something we don’t dare to mention the rest of the year: TO HAVE A SECURE BUT EXCITING LOVE RELATIONSHIP! How do you combine the two things? Secure is boring….exciting is dangerous….so what gives? For the rest of us, ensconced in a [...]