Can You Stop His Denial?

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 (If you don't know what this is here is help)A desperate wife sent this comic and serious request for help...she copied for me the beginning of a letter to her husband:"I was watching TV and the , and some people were using those strange … [Read more...]

Why men don’t get their emotional needs met

     As we keep thinking on the issues of relationships, we keep sharing with you our new ideas....Here is a new line of thinking, a development from attachment theory and the corresponding mindsets and how them  manage our human needs. … [Read more...]

Using respect to manage your passive aggressive husband?

We women think that we know exactly what men want....and that begins with sex, right? If I ask you: what is beyond sex that men want, and it is not good food? you will be at a challenge to answer... Well, here we want to share something else, … [Read more...]

When emotional needs are ignored, what we need to have is conflicts!

Of all the issues included in past posts, comments and insights about emotional needs in a couple, today I want to offer a basic piece of information that perhaps can be a big “aha” point in your day. When we talk about different expectations … [Read more...]

Fighting a last war that is not real anymore?

Some months ago, a visited this expo of the Chinese warrior statues. They are all well done, in different postures and so detailed you can think you see areal person in each of them....The story tells us that some King ordered them made to protect … [Read more...]