Women like you are taking the passive aggressive test: you are not alone!

WERE  YOU TAKING THE TEST AS IF IT WAS YOUR HUSBAND ANSWERING IT? Reading the responses from people taking the test, we got a surprise: you are not alone! While you were thinking that you were doing this "test taking" by yourself, hiding under a … [Read more...]

Teaching Your Husband to Stop: Is This the Cure for Your Unhappiness?

Over the years, most of what we've discussed here has been about how to deal with the impact of your husband's passive aggressive behaviour in your life. However, not much attention has gone to helping your husband understand what is going on, and to … [Read more...]

Passive Aggressive Meaning Stops Connection

Many researchers (whether of the brain, psychology or communication and conflict) will agree that when we communicate with others, we are attempting to connect with those people on some deeper emotional level. This is true of a hurled insult as well … [Read more...]

Be Aggressive Means Appreciate Less

In a relationship, because we see our partner as someone we “choose,” we expect them to give us all the attention we crave. This is contrasted to relatives who are given to us, not chosen, and who don’t always give us the support we … [Read more...]

A Passive Aggressive Marriage Breaking Point

People have different times to process emotional contents...when one person is fast to acknowledge that for them there is a need to stop interactions and protect themselves, other person could still go on and deny their personal hurt a bit … [Read more...]